You, Me and the Space Between Us: How to (Re)Build Your Relationship

I love how this book includes case studies as well as the writers' own struggles in relationship. It's relieving to understand that conflict is inevitable and that difficulties can be worked with. I know a lot about conscious relating, and still learned lots from having complicated dynamics explained and illustrated with examples. I'm taking away that a healthy relationship requires rigour and persistence from both parties and invites a flourishing of awareness and growth.

A courageous and deeply resonating text from a wonderful husband and wife team of therapists. Nuggets of wisdom, theoretical, clinical, personal, as a compassionate and courageous outsider to other relationships but also a very intuned insider look into the nooks and crannies of human soul, with its vulnerabilities, fears, doubts, the very crux of human suffering we all experience at some point of our life. The authors did an excellent job not only providing the understanding on how attachment works, or doesn't in close relationships, bu they also offer clinically relevant steps and skills people can transfer into their real relationships and life to learn to thrive and grow together, and not just give up or run away in fear and despair. No doubt a valuable addition to the library of any discerning and reflective person out there.

I found this book to be so helpful. I would really recommend it to anyone wanting to deepen their understanding of relationships. If you’re wanting to enrich your current relationship or perhaps take a pause before embarking on something new with someone new, this book offers up a wealth of wisdom and insight. I found it to be central to some really important learning and it also helped me to ground some of the experiences I have had that I didn’t understand at the time, giving me greater understanding, which I have then been able to expand on, make my own and take back into my relationship. It’s helped so much so I highly recommend this book.

Very well written with useful tips for all stages of relationships.Whether you are having difficulties or not, there were lots of ‘light bulb’ moments I familiarised with from previous relationships, and tools I can use going forward in my relationship now.Will be recommending to everyone I know!Thankyou!