Undercover Sex Signals: A Pickup Guide for Guys

I bought this book because I like Lowndes' books I own "Say Goodbye to Shy" and "How to Talk to Anyone" and they both have helpfulf hints and activities on their topics. I bought this book because I have always been so dense when it comes to figuring out if a girl was into me. So many times other people had to tell me that a girl liked me because I couldnt see the subtle signals. When I saw the title and read some reviews I knew this book was for me. While reading this book I decided to look for signals wherever I go and actually started noticing the subtleties of female flirting. This book points out female flirting techniques and how to respond to them. My favorite pointer in the book was, dont go after the hot girl you notice but scan the room and see which women are into you and out of those women which do you like and go get her. Ever single guy should have this book.

I bought a hard copy of this book some years ago after I was single again after a 20 year marriage. I didn't have a clue how to begin dating again. I picked up some dating books and took myself back to singles school.I'd took the book with me to a restaurant to keep myself company and do some people watching. Literally, as I was reading the section on the "Peek a Boo" technique I glanced over at the bar and there was an attractive woman checking me out by peeking over her menu several times and then ducking back behind it. I couldn't believe it because she followed the script exactly by leaning over to whisper to her girlfriend. Right out of the book the girlfriend stretched and turned so she had an excuse to look over within about 30 seconds. It was happening right in front of me as I was reading the chapter! I would have missed it completely missed it previously.In the intervening years I've gone on to be certified as a body language trainer, which what This book is all about. I recently read the book again as a refresher and found the signals to be as reliable as ever. I even incorporate a number of them when teaching the body language principles of romance.This isn't some "50 hot pick up lines for guys" kind of garbage. It is all the subtle signals women give off when they see someone that strikes their fancy. Being a man I can assure you most men miss the vast majority of the signals. I agree totally with Leil Lowndes that it is always the lady who initiates the approach, despite the fact that most guys think it was their idea. The cues can be so subtle that the man making the approach thinks it was his great idea.I also think her advice to guys about not zeroing in on who you're interested in, but being open to spot the lady that's expressing a subtle interest in you is the way to go. She has some great stories illustrating that point.

While the writing style of this book is no better than her other book "How To Talk To Anyone..", the information is. If you follow Mystery's or any other PUG really you will most likely only hear about 3 or 4 IOIs through body language. This book actually discusses and shows pictures of 26 and even sites the information present very well (a well know sociologist sat in a bar for 9,000 and studied this). It brings to light a much more rich, colorful, and complicated set of body language actions to watch for that will give you a much better understand of what she is actually trying to tell you.The bad points. 1) The name is less than creative. 2) The cover makes the book appear sleazy and diminishes it's credibility. 3) She uses bad metaphors like a machine gun with the trigger taped down. If you took out the metaphors I am pretty sure the book would be a quarter less in length. 4) Her attempts at humor fall short. 5) Her "Men's Voice" sounds like Stallone's retarded cousin.If you can get past the issues above the book is a great resource. The good points. 1) The information in the book is plentiful, sound, and backed up with sources. 2) She references a lot of sources that would be good for a future reading. Honestly, the list of sources alone is worth the cost of the book.

Believe it or not, 30 of 31 guys don't know how to read women bodylanguage (that's stated in the book). That means, almost ALL men out there actually DON'T HAVE A CLUE when women are attracted to them.Did you know that whatever people-packed-place you go, at least 3 or 4 women find you attractive as a mate? However, we men 'approach' constantly the wrong targets and get painfully rejected. I've experienced it many times and have seen it happen a lot.Before reading the book, I knew the basic-common gestures that women throw out when they like you. But trust me, after the wonderful and many times humorous experience of reading Lowndes' beautiful written book, you REALLY feel like you understand a new language!As the book states, it is not a bodylanguage workbook, although you still will learn a lot just from only reading the more than 20 non-verbal cues listed there. The art of understanding women sex signals is a concept of synergy, and that's the most important lesson in the book.For the first weeks after being enlightened with this information, I was very surprised finding out many girls I didn't think liked me were throwing me sex signals madly! It is that powerful!Not only that, you will learn a lot about women phsycology, conversation tips, dressing & style suggestions, etc. etc.I dare to say that you NEED this book right now before you get out there to meet someone, be it for a relationship or sex, it doesn't matter. GET IT NOW. And don't make the mistake of thinking that you 'already know' women signals. You will be amazed if you try it, really.I've found an excelent complement for this book if you are looking for casual sex adventures: The System (by Roy Valentine). However, if you are looking for something long lasting and deeper, or if you want to become a pick up machine, then just look around for other material to supplement it, that's not really my goal.So, for any KIND OF GUY, I repeat, before starting his love & sexual life, it should be required to read and absorb the information in this wonderful book.Undercover Sex Signals is my new dialect ;)

This book is a leader in this uncontested domain. This is best because it's mostly based on research. Buy it without hesitation.

Worth the money. I was so clueless about women's body language until reading this book. I credit my last girlfriend to this book.

I thought this book to be generally good. There are some useful tips that can help any guy pick up on women's ucss

Ein sehr interessanter Flirtratgeber, der im Vergleich zu den anderen Büchern seiner Art auch die Beobachtungsgabe des willigen Flirters schult.

I've read books on pick up and body language from human behaviour point of view and yes; for pick up. This is a real interesting and easy read. It claims to be completely based on scientific fact. I have no reason to doubt it I just haven't taken the time to confirm it. Within the first four days of starting this book I kissed and dated two brand new girls. Could be a coincidence but I do feel more confident approaching women who have shot me signals. Outside of pick up it's earned the price tag purely off the fun it has put into people watching. Give it a go.