Money, A Love Story: Untangle Your Financial Woes and Create the Life You Really Want Paperback – September 10, 2013

When I read the first chapter of this book and did the money quiz I literally fell into a deep state of depression. I remember the day so clearly because I was on my way to visit a friend for lunch at the Columbus Circle mall in NYC. I just got off the train with the Kate's questions resounding in my head and the self beat up that I, a 33 year old talented, educated, opera singer, did NOT have her life together. As I walked into the mall my chest tightened and I felt smaller than a grain of sand. The self beat up rang loudly in my ears and by the time I saw my friend I must have looked pale for a black woman because he asked if I needed to leave right away. I felt sick to my stomach. We went to lunch but instead of eating I watched my friend eat lunch while I had none. I could not spend another dime!Thankfully trusted friends allow us the space to go through whatever one needs to and they lovingly encourage us as we go through deep emotional waters. Money, A Love Story was my guide through the storm of my depression and confusion around my money (a physical manifestation of my perceived value). I was diligent and desperate. I did ALL the exercises; Daily affirmations, explore the book suggestions, meditation, checking my money daily, choosing gratitude every day I looked at my back account statements, and so much more. I paid off 3 long standing credit cards, consolidated my 10 student loans into one, raised my credit score, and actually have over $500 in my savings account for the first time ever. I gained so much clarity on beliefs I had been holding. I had NO clue these beliefs were holding me back. I still have a journey ahead of me to release the remaining debt and restructure the way I earn income. What this book has given me are tools that I can continue to apply for the rest of my life. And! Kate gave so many other book suggestions that I'm excited and inspired to continue my journey with the wisdom of others who have gone through this before. The choice to face myself for the irresponsible choices from my past, the commitment to forgive myself, and nurture a life of abundance that is in alignment with Self love is a priceless gift. Thank you Kate for sharing your Truth and inspiring countless others to do the same.And if your considering if this book is for you take a moment to decide if you have a desire to understand the truth behind your choices. Maybe you're a sensitively connected soul desperate enough to gain some clarity on the real reason why your financial health is messy. If so, then this is a beautiful starting place for you to gain that clarity and garner tools to begin your journey back to your inherent value.Blessings!

This book took me a long time to get through bc I was very thorough! So many good exercises and thoughts

After reading MONEY A LOVE STORY there are a lot of ideas to digest and go deep in my understanding of money beyond the academic way.The first action is to take a quiz to know where you are right now about your relationship with money. I think the book works pretty well even from the title to heal finance issues. What does love have to do in the equation? Kate Northup explains it in the first chapter. Along the book you’ll find exercises to work with all the ideas that the author writes about. Although, she mentions other authors that have helped her in her journey to financial freedom and that I’ll be checking out as well.

I heard about Kate via Marie Forleo and as a member of Marie's B-School, I love all things entrepreneurial these days.However, I have some financial issues that I have been working on through a personal financial coach and now through Kate's book. The way in which Kate writes and the way in which she shared her personal story really connected to my own story and she actually inspired me to "do" the financial journal - she made me take action because of the way her story connected to me. I have wanted to build a home for a long time - however, it really hit me, that I may not want to right now.....so I have deferred the dream, but what I realized is that the home that I have is really just fine for now. A huge shift....and a huge burden released for me.She writes in a loving and compassionate manner, yet she encourages you, without being "bossy" to take action in your own life. I personally had a major shift which was coming thanks to my life coach and past financial coach. Kate's words that she took from her mom, Dr. Christine Northrup, "you have to feel it to heal it" were just what I need to hear. And that is so true. That quote hangs on my fridge.....and it also resonates with Danielle LaPorte who constantly asks, "how do you want to feel?"For me and with the help of Kate and others, I want to feel empowered and able to LOVE money....I do not want to fear it or live in a lack mentality.You are most gifted as an author, Kate Northrup, and I am very fortunate to have picked up this book (well...downloaded it to my cell phone that I actually read while on my stationary bike).Thank you, Kate!! Your work is most outstanding and extraordinary.Peggy DaValt

I initially hesitated to purchase this book because of other reviews. But in the end I was just drawn in...I HAD to purchase Kate's book! I am a mind-body doc so I am well aware of other people's fears and judgment, as well as my own. I honestly really resonated with Kate's work. Did she grow up in a very different environment from myself? Sure. But in the end, I grew up really hating myself without realizing what I was doing or why. My father was always angry. Not necessarily with me, but I was convinced I did something wrong. I believed he didn't love me, I didn't love myself. I believed I was worthless and not worthy to be a successful business woman. There was a history of business ownership in my family, and each generation compared and judged themselves against the kids. The kids were NEVER as successful as the parents. Blah, blah, blah. Boy, did I buy into a bunch of BS! Kate, Thank You for writing this book! I loved it! It has already helped me shift a little bit deeper into loving myself! I am forever grateful!