Urge Silicone Strapless Strap On with Remote- Black

After reading mixed reviews, I knew we (lesbian couple) needed to write one in! This strapless strap-on was THE answer we never knew we needed. The second we tried it for the first time, it just WORKED like our bodies were meant for it. We’ve tried many strapped in strap-ons, and personally, i felt like all the hardware got in the way. This, on the other hand just hits the *right* spots (for both of us). I’m saying mind blowing SYNCHED orgasms. We’ve had this for over a year and at first, it worked best ‘cowgirl’, or reverse cowgirl but more recently we’ve experimented with ‘doggy’ and O.M.G. I don’t know how to give a more glorified review but, to my ladies who love ladies and are looking to for that mutual, simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation, just buy this. *please note* this thing is intense (with or without vibration) and be prepared for slappy, sloppy primal connection.

I bought this for my wife to try and try it she did (with me). First, I'm definitely glad I purchased a harness to go with it, because without it, my wife would have gotten too tired to keep it in place and use it on its own. Second, she did not enjoy the vibrator as the vibrations were too strong for her personal tastes and the vibrator that came with it only has one speed. Lastly, while I enjoyed it (upon getting used to it) she did not - not even a little. Keep in mind that while my wife does enjoy more traditional sexual positions and has orgasms that way, this was just not her thing and didn’t even “turn her on” at all. Hopefully, you and your partner will have greater success with it. I deducted 2 stars for the harness requirement and for not giving my wife any pleasure (not even a little).UPDATE 1/2/2019: So, since my wife didn’t get any enjoyment out of this and because she thought it was just plain weird, I hadn’t asked her to use it with me again for quite a while. However, for New Year’s Eve I asked her to use it with me again. She declined that night (because I had been drinking) but decided to give it a go the following day, after I woke up. As usual, this device did nothing for her, but I can definitely say that it worked for me. If I could give it 5 stars for my own pleasure and 1 star for my wife, I would. Although we haven’t used this device for a while, we have still tried other things that have hit the Prostate for me. I have heard of the seemingly, mythical P-Spot Orgasm for men, and I think I finally achieved one with this device on New Year’s Day, which is why I felt compelled to update this review.For anyone that is wondering, this is how we did it: I lay on my back, as close to the edge of the bed as I could get. My wife stood at the edge of the bed and entered me with the device from that position. NOTE: Remember to use lots of water based lube! Also, take it slow, ‘cause the device is a bit on the large side and can hurt at first until you get used to it. Once inside, my wife began to pump the device all the way in. However, what we realized was that deeper is not better (not for me anyway). So once we realized that, she stopped trying to put it all the way in and shortened her thrusts. The natural shape of the head of the device – and this is key – was then stimulating the prostate perfectly, just like a finger, but bigger. And when I say perfectly, I really mean PERFECTLY. Once we got a good rhythm going, and I felt like I was close to peaking, I asked her to stroke my manhood in conjunction with her thrusts and that pushed me over the edge in a way that left me feeling like I just had achieved some sort of sexual/spiritual co-mingling nirvana. I don’t know how else to describe it, but it was fantastic and amazing!So for me, this device is definitely 5 stars. I just wish there was a way to make it enjoyable for my wife, too. Knowing what we know now, I may have to invest into a different harness that allows for a different vibrator that is more adjustable with the vibration pattern, and see if that does anything for her. It’s either that, or I will just have to accept that using this is for me (and me only) and try not to ask my wife to use it too often, since it doesn’t do anything for her. Anyway, I’m sure we’ll figure something out. Best of luck to anyone who gives this a try. If you can find that special spot and stimulate it properly, trust me, you won’t regret it!

This thing is fantastic! It works exactly as described but keep in mind all of these style toys may need a harness. It has the perfect stiffness and texture, cleans easily, and you can get a vibrator to suit since it will stretch to hold all of the common bullet sizes.Also, there is a version of this which is more ABS or some other material than silicone. Don't get that one. It will melt and seems dodgy health wise. The pure silicone one does not have that problem.

For bigger women this does not fit as well and pulls out of me even using the Bare as You Dare harness I bought separately. My guy loves it and the vibration is great. Maybe as I lose more weight the fit will be better. I truly wish it was longer on both ends. Feels so soft and smooth though. Suggestion: the wearer should pinch their legs together when wearing. This helps it stay put a little better. Definitely needs a harness.

It’s a pain to put in (no really, it hurts) and the angle and shape of the inside bit is so awkward and uncomfortable I literally cannot get it far enough into me to get the clit pad in the right place. Have the designers of this thing ever even seen a vagina before?Also, the vibrator is broken. The connection with the motor is loose. If you hold it just right it’ll buzz a little, but it stutters. It heats up really fast, to the point that if I left it “on” for too long it’d be a fire hazard. I forgot it with the batteries in and it was almost too hot to touch when I came back 5-10 minutes later.The whole thing is absolutely useless. I’m so disappointed.

best toy to peg him with. gives me the stimulation I need to orgasm while making him submissive. great toy highly recommend

Nice product. No weird smell, even fresh out of the box. Both insertable sides are sized pretty well. Not huge but not tiny. The only problem is the U shape to the toy. It is relatively stiff and was very uncomfortable when inserted. Not the size of it but the way it squeezes against your pelvis. The bullet had pretty good vibration to it. Not sure about battery life as it was too uncomfortable to actually use. A for effort. B- for shape.

Looked just as it did in the pictures, was well packaged. As far as how it worked it was great, my girlfriend did say after a while it became difficult to stay in but that can fixed multiple ways. She did say she felt no vibration on her end even after we put in our strongest bullet so because of that I gave 4 stars other than than that was a good buy

It’s bigger than I expected, and in the moment, anticipated...so be warned....wife found it a little large and uncomfortable... however we enjoyed it and with practise will be able to use to its full potential.

Significantly underpowered, and definitely needs a strap (but not worth buying one for this)

it stopped working after the first use , you should as well buy a nonelectric on for $30

Super soft to the touch, strong vibration, stays in very well compared to others I've tried.

was given as a gift they thought it was ok