Femdom for Nice Girls: A Self-Guided Manual for the Caring Mistress

Is the exact book I needed to read when I decided to dip my toe into Domination! I recommend it to any woman wanting to enter the Dom world!

A Woman taking the lead and How she can use it for Her Gain and Her Advantage. A submissive man needs her Dominant Energy to react to. A submissive man wants the Woman to Benefit. This is a Win-Win Lifestyle. A very good book

I have recently been introduced to the world of FemDom and FLR, and found myself at a point in my life where I know absolutely nothing about functioning in this type of relationship, but what I have experienced I love the nature of this lifestyle. So I headed online to learn as much as I could, including of course checking Amazon's book options. I came across this manual and thought it looked alright so I bought. I tend to lose interest in things easily if they don't include some interactive component, which Mistress Fairbourne's manual does with it's worksheet sections. I did find that the worksheets are geared more for an established couple embarking upon this journey rather than the new single Domme, but none the less the information is good, to the point, and allows exploration of the Domme's feelings regarding this journey. It is an easy read, though densely packed with plenty of information. I think if I had to choose just one book as a new Domme seeking guidance, I would pick her book.

I have not read it yet, but very interested, my wife just started reading it and she is finding it a curious and very interesting read. I'm looking forward to reading it.

This was mostly geared to erotic spanking no real sense of true FLR, DD. There were some helpful icebreaker activities to fill out as a couple included in the book wich brought up some good talking points. I'd say about %60 of the information was beneficial and the other %40 we had to completely disregard and sometimes laugh. I'd suggest this as a couples workbook who are new to the lifestyle but seek other opinions for discipline, considering she uses punishment spankings as a "reward" or boon. Really akward reverse psychology that is detrimental to any couple that actually practices femdom/domestic discipline.

Exceptionally well thought out and written and proofed for errors (I don't really recall any and they always catch my eyes). Very well suited for a hopeful submissive to give to a hoped for Mistress. It is so well done that it will be appreciated for any in their first few years of involvement. My margin comment on the 5th page of text: "Exceptionally well written. It IS about serving and pleasing the Mistress." On the 7th page of text I inked in: "Author IS intelligent." I so rarely do that. There are better, more in depth books for later on, but this is a great book to start with.

I picked this up for some research on a book project--and, I'll confess, out of prurient curiosity--and found it an easy and informative read. Not super-detailed, but a good introduction to the topic if you're looking for ideas--whether in fiction or, presumably, real life!

This book is fantastic! And for the price, it's 1/3 the cost of others, yet 300% better!! I've read some of the others and they are too simplistic and lacking the psychological depth that Lucy brings out in this read. If you are a guy and want your woman to understand how you feel about submission, this is absolutely the manual to give her!

Nice book full of information

Nice book about basic concepts of domination for the inexperienced or vanilla woman that want to enter the sexual domination. It covers only the domination and control aspects of the BDSM relationship, incl. dominatrix mindset.

und gut geschrieben, wenn auch nicht allzu umfangreich. Aber vermittelt definitiv das richtige Mindset für eine M/s Beziehung ;)

The book is easy to read and inspiring to establish/maintain/develop caring dominance within a loving couple. I liked the fact that it focuses on both partner's needs. It does an excellent job of demystifying various BDSM concepts in a non-threatening way. Discipline is well-emphasized, and the author provides many alternatives to establish Domestic Discipline, helping a wife to be guilt-free for training and disciplining the husband. It contains many clear examples of activities, enhancing a Dominant/submissive relationship. It is a handy guide for establishing a Femdom household.

I bought this for my partner and I, unfortunately it was all a it to much for her but I gave it a read through and it has some good stuff in it, hope you enjoy defo worth the value