--- product_id: 99513895 title: "The Course of Love: A Novel Kindle Edition" brand: "alain de botton" price: "$28.46" currency: USD in_stock: true reviews_count: 10 url: https://www.desertcart.us/products/99513895-the-course-of-love-a-novel-kindle-edition store_origin: US region: United States of America --- # The Course of Love: A Novel Kindle Edition **Brand:** alain de botton **Price:** $28.46 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** The Course of Love: A Novel Kindle Edition by alain de botton - **How much does it cost?** $28.46 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.us](https://www.desertcart.us/products/99513895-the-course-of-love-a-novel-kindle-edition) ## Best For - alain de botton enthusiasts ## Why This Product - Trusted alain de botton brand quality - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description Full description not available ## Images ![The Course of Love: A Novel Kindle Edition - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/41a34CSJCfL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Falling in love vs. maintaining love *by J***N on Reviewed in the United States on November 27, 2016* Once, early on in my marriage, my husband and I had a particularly intense fight over a ridiculously trivial matter. I barely remember the topic – something about where to hang some artwork – but I vividly recall that frightening feeling that I had made a ghastly mistake in joining our futures together.Enter Alain De Botton. I wish I could advise my younger self to have read his book. De Botton employs an everyman and everywoman – in this case, Rahib, a non-religious budding architect from Beirut and Kirsten, a woman who had been abandoned early on in life by her father. Sparks fly and we follow the two of them through the course of love – infatuation, wedding, children, disillusionment, adultery, and finally, maturity.Rahib and Kirsten are just foils for the author’s theme: falling in love is easy but maintaining that love is the real challenge. No one, after all, is perfect. “Rather than split up,” the author writes, “We may need to tell ourselves more accurate stories – stories that don’t dwell so much on the beginning, that don’t promise us complete understanding, that strive to normalize our troubles and show us a melancholy yet hopeful path through the course of love.” Each step of Rahib and Kirsten’s relationship is met with an evaluation – even an analysis – of what, precisely, is going on in their heads. The primal needs of this everyman and everywoman still demand attention as they reach adulthood and parenthood and much of their disillusionment stems from a desire to have the partner magically understand what those needs are…without appearing too vulnerable.There is a problem with presenting the course of love through the eyes of surrogates. This reading experience is bound to be intensely personal, and when it deviates too much from the reader’s own experience, there is a waning interest. My husband, and I, for example, never had kids together, and I found myself not all that interested in Rahib and Kirsten’s parenthood experiences.Yet the conclusions – that Romantic ideas of love are a recipe for disaster and that one can only be in love when one has given up on perfection – is compelling. “Rather than notional idea of perfect complementarity, it is the capacity to tolerate dissimilarity that is the true marker of the “right” person.” My husband and I are still going strong after reaching that conclusion. To my mind, this book should be de rigueur reading for every couple contemplating marriage and every couple who wonders why their own marriage isn’t 100% perfect all the time (which is the vast majority of us!) ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thought provoking reflection of "Romantic" love *by C***A on Reviewed in the United States on September 4, 2018* If you have watched Alain de Botton's video summarizing this book (well worth watching), not much in this book will come as a surprise. If you haven't, hold on and prepare to take what you think about love and get ready to throw it out the window.While this novel is not as poetic as his brilliant Art of Travel, it is no less thought provoking. De Botton challenges the reader to reevaluate their views on love, marriage, and parenting. He gives insight into how our preconceptions of the perfect romantic love have set us up for disappointment and frustration. He also offers some ideas on how to have more realistic expectations of our lovers and of ourselves and how important communication is.I have only given this book 4 stars only because it is not the most compelling novel you will read, but it is without a doubt worth reading.I'm not certain that I agree with everything he's written here, but I feel that it's raised many questions in my head that need to be reconsidered in the way I approach relationships going forward.The thoughts presented in this book will be kicking around in my head for months if not years to come. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ A how to manual for anyone in a relationship or anyone who has been through a long term relationship. *by B***G on Reviewed in the United States on December 27, 2017* I LOVED this little book. It feels like a how to manual for anyone in a relationship or anyone who has been through a long term relationship. I didn’t always love the main characters each for different reasons at different times, but that really depicted an honest feeling as to how they were feeling towards each other at the time as well. Coming in at only 241 pages, it is a quick read kind of. I say kind of because there were many times I had to re-read passages because of how amazing and quotable this story is. Rather than give you a traditional review, I am going to post the books synopsis and give you some of my favorite quotes. I highlighted so many parts of this book that when I was done my list of highlights was over 50 long! The cover of this novel is also very beautiful. I read it on my Kindle but have ordered it to put on my bookshelf. I really think that when you not only love a book but admire its beauty, it deserves a place on your shelf. --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.us/products/99513895-the-course-of-love-a-novel-kindle-edition](https://www.desertcart.us/products/99513895-the-course-of-love-a-novel-kindle-edition) --- *Product available on Desertcart United States of America* *Store origin: US* *Last updated: 2026-05-16*