--- product_id: 4694939 title: "Playing to Win: Raising Children in a Competitive Culture Paperback – August 3, 2013" brand: "hilary levey friedman" price: "$68.59" currency: USD in_stock: true reviews_count: 9 url: https://www.desertcart.us/products/4694939-playing-to-win-raising-children-in-a-competitive-culture-paperback store_origin: US region: United States of America --- # Playing to Win: Raising Children in a Competitive Culture Paperback – August 3, 2013 **Brand:** hilary levey friedman **Price:** $68.59 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Playing to Win: Raising Children in a Competitive Culture Paperback – August 3, 2013 by hilary levey friedman - **How much does it cost?** $68.59 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.us](https://www.desertcart.us/products/4694939-playing-to-win-raising-children-in-a-competitive-culture-paperback) ## Best For - hilary levey friedman enthusiasts ## Why This Product - Trusted hilary levey friedman brand quality - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description Full description not available ## Images ![Playing to Win: Raising Children in a Competitive Culture Paperback – August 3, 2013 - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/61MU6dIdvNL.jpg) ![Playing to Win: Raising Children in a Competitive Culture Paperback – August 3, 2013 - Image 2](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/5117wDhFiHL.jpg) ![Playing to Win: Raising Children in a Competitive Culture Paperback – August 3, 2013 - Image 3](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/31gyt3tPxVL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐ Interesting Premise, Mediocre Execution *by J***R on Reviewed in the United States on November 18, 2013* This book read like someone's thesis paper turned into a book [which I'm guessing is the case]. Unfortunately, what could have been an interesting premise is hindered by two big issues. First, the limited scope - only one metropolitan area "Metro" was surveyed. The study would be much more meaningful if other areas beyond NYC or Boston were used for input. Second, the lack of any real suggestions for parents in navigating these situations. As someone with children in travel soccer and competitive gymnastics, none of what was in here was in any real way informative. Even trying to leave that context aside, I found much of the book to be very repetitive and superficial - in the manner in which quotes from parents or other writers were simply presented with little in the way of analysis. What I was looking for in purchasing the book, was some help in instilling the right balance of competitiveness and fun in these activities for my kids. Unfortunately, that was not to be found.Really, this would have made a nice brief article in a parenting magazine. Maybe I bought this expecting too much out of it, but I do not think it was worthy of being a full book. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ A balanced look at after school activities *by N***B on Reviewed in the United States on December 5, 2013* Friedman's research about the role of competition in shaping kids' lives later fascinated and terrified me. I like to keep my kids' schedules light, but I sometimes worry they're missing out on some of these skills that other parents are making sure their kids get. Friendman does a great job though, immersing herself in three of these activities (soccer, dance, and chess) to get a look at some of the sacrifices made too. She does all this (looks at the benefits and the negative aspects of spending so much time on these activities) without judgment. It's an impressive book with a lot to share with parents. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Loved this book! *by R***A on Reviewed in the United States on November 11, 2013* I am a parent trying to find an appropriate balance between encouraging my kids to work hard while still letting them "be kids." I really recommend Playing to Win for parents in this situation. The book offers a fascinating bird's eye view on the state of competitive children's activities in the U.S., but the real beauty of the analysis is its in-depth look at how specific families navigate this landscape.The book is also must-read for teachers, coaches and others who are simply interested in Americans' obsession with childhood achievement. It is exceptionally well- researched, yet engaging and easy to read. --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.us/products/4694939-playing-to-win-raising-children-in-a-competitive-culture-paperback](https://www.desertcart.us/products/4694939-playing-to-win-raising-children-in-a-competitive-culture-paperback) --- *Product available on Desertcart United States of America* *Store origin: US* *Last updated: 2026-05-16*